A Lesson About Friendship

Many moons ago, my father shared this short story with me. I’m not sure where he found it, or who wrote it. But, I’ve always considered it to be an inspiring lesson about friendship, and so I thought I’d share it with you.


Just up the road from my house is a field with two horses in it. From a distance each looks like every other horse. But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing. Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind. His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him. This alone is amazing.

If nearby and listening, you will hear the sound of a bell. Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field. Attached to her halter is a small bell. It lets her blind friend know where she is, so he can follow her.

As you stand and watch these two friends, you’ll see how she is always checking on him, and that he will listen for her bell then slowly walk to where she is, trusting that she will not lead him astray. When she returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, she stops occasionally and looks back, making sure that her friend isn’t too far behind to hear the bell.

Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges. He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need. Sometimes, we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives. Other times we are the guide horse, helping others see.

Good friends are like this…you don’t always see them, but you know they are always there.

Please listen for my bell and I’ll listen for yours.

Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Author Unknown

38 responses to “A Lesson About Friendship”

  1. Thank you very much for sharing such an excellent story, really very meaningful. Wish you and your loved ones a prosperous New Year.πŸ‘πŸ™

    1. Thanks, Francis – glad you liked it & Happy New Year 2021 πŸ‘

      1. Most welcome πŸ‘πŸ™

  2. Nicely told.

    1. Thanks – glad you like it!

  3. Nice. Like not going on appearance. And being happy with what you have. Helping others and be truthful, is what I believe. And is what reflecting in your post.

    1. Thanks, Mehwish ~ glad you like it πŸ™‚

  4. A beautiful post and lesson.

    1. Thank you, Bryan – glad you like it!

  5. What a beautiful message, thanks for sharing this, Phil!!

    1. Cool, I’m glad that you enjoyed it Tiffany πŸ™‚ I’ve always appreciated this lesson and was happy to share.

    1. Thank you, Bonnie ~ glad you like it & have a nice day 🌞🌹

  6. That is an inspiring story Phil and one we humans would do well to live by. Help out those in need. Thanks for sharing. Allan

    1. Right on & thank you, Allan – glad you like it πŸ‘

  7. Super story passed down from your father. I will share this with my son too, thanks.

    1. Right on, Johnny – I think it’s a wonderful lesson to share πŸ‘

  8. Awesome! This story is really inspiring and excellent..😊😊🌹

    1. Thank you, dear Filarance ~ glad you like it 😊🌹

      1. You’re always welcome friend. It’s my pleasure. 😊🌹

  9. This is the most beautiful post I have read today. Thanks for sharing πŸ™‚

    1. Thank you, my friend ~ I’m glad you enjoy it 😊🌹

      1. Welcome πŸ™‚

  10. This is a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing it with us Phil.

    1. You’re most welcome, Louise ~ I’ve always enjoyed this story and I’m pleased you do, as well. Have a nice day, my friend 😊

  11. Wow, this is touching, beautiful and a piece that stays with you; I will save this for sure. Absolutely wonderful share Phil. πŸ™πŸ»

    1. Right on, Amber. I’ve always enjoyed this story & I’m pleased that you do, as well. I wish CM would read it – she was in my thoughts when I posted it. Alas. Have a nice evening, my friend πŸ™

  12. SGR (learningthursdays.com) Avatar
    SGR (learningthursdays.com)

    So true..!! Beautiful story..!

    1. I’m glad that you enjoy the story, my friend Shanthy 😊

  13. You’ve inspired me today!

    1. I’m pleased to hear that, my friend Kally ~ glad you like it & best wishes for a wonderful weekend 😊🌹

  14. Glad your father shared this story with you Phil, and thanks for sharing it with us. I especially like the reminder that we too may be the guiding horse for others at times so to always look out for and be kind to others.

    1. Thank you, Halim – glad you like it!

  15. My favorite quote – “Good friends are like stars…” πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ»

    1. Glad you like it ~ thanks πŸ‘πŸ»

    1. Thanks, Serena ~ glad you like it 😊🌹

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